Appreciate Them For Their Hard Work And Effort

Always recognize when they are reaching out to you and reciprocate lovingly by meeting them. Saying thank you is an amazing way of building a connection with your partner, When you appreciate them for a thoughtful thing that your spouse has done, they become more connected with you and your intimacy or bond gets stronger. Also, by commending them sincerely for something they did that day, you are indirectly encouraging them to do more, to do something even bigger and they will willingly and happily do so. You should always remember those things that you appreciate and love about each other and speak about them lovingly. Remind and appreciate them for their hard work and effort in putting the families together or in managing the affairs of the home, commend them for their honesty. Tell them they are the best thing that has ever happened to you. Honey, call me when you get to where you are going so I know that you made it there safely. That may not be necessary because nothing is going to happen, so just believe that I will get there safely. But, if something bad should happen, I trust you will get to hear about it! The wife most likely has a meaning that is different from what the husband is thinking. The wife, on the one hand, is simply telling the husband that she cares about his safety, after all, they are married, and that’s a connection between them. The husband, on the other, has misunderstood the wife and thinks the wife is only interested in knowing where he goes, what he is doing, and with whom. The scenario above exemplifies the misunderstandings that are associated with the differences in the way that men and women communicate.

Better Days

Just like the saying ’Men are from Mars while women are from Venus,’ men and women communicate in totally different ways. If as a male, you are having difficulty understanding your female partner or as a female, you are having trouble understanding your male partner, we will now break it down a little bit for you. Make sure to have your helmets on, for we are going on a crash course. Here are some of the different ways in which men and women communicate. Understanding this aspect of your relations is key to effective communication because you will be able to work them out, and enjoy a healthy, happy relationship. Competition Men are often particularly competitive in nature. Even in their place of work, men usually don’t involve in pointless chats. For them, a conversation does not need to be too long, they can end a conversion suddenly the moment they are satisfied. Women are less competitive and prefer longer conversations that will allow them to ask even personal questions involving health and family issues. They often end up creating a bond, a connection with the person they are talking to. In terms of communicating, men tend to appear more serious and practical than women. Men prefer more of conversation which allows them to speak and listen, and that would be all.

Someday Soon

Women use and prefer nonverbal communication. They want to explore with gestures such as facial expressions, talking with their hands or holding hands, nodding heads when listening. Men view apology as a way of accepting defeat, so that when you apologize to them, this act reinforces their position of power. For them, apology represents humility and respect. But this is not the way of men. Men have more trouble saying ’I am sorry’ than women do. When you apologize to a woman, such as by saying ’I am sorry,’ you are forming a bond and creating an atmosphere of mutual respect with them, and most importantly, they feel that they have been heard and that their opinions and feelings are highly valued. Women tend to give out compliments more than men do. For women, giving out compliments is another way of forming a bond and being respect respectful. Also, for women, giving out compliments is a way of showing that you mean no harm to them and that you can be trusted. For men, this is not the case. Men are less likely to give out compliments than women.

You Cannot Hide

Women usually prefer to dive into the details of an issue to find out as much as they can. They don’t just respond to a situation in isolation, they do not just make a snap judgment, but would often want to do a ’background check’ and look for context information to find out why something is happening the way it is, or why someone is behaving the way they are. Men on the other hand tend to find satisfaction in a ’yes or no’ answer. They often get to the heart of an issue straight away, trying to make a snap judgment. So men prefer going straight to the point as quickly as possible, they want to cut to the chase and get things going as quickly as possible, but women could spend a lot of time talking and sharing details about themselves including family, work, relationships than men. Women show more zeal and interest in negotiation. For them, negotiating is a way of finding a common ground with others. Men, on the other hand, see negotiating as weakness and shows that they are submitting or agreeing to the plans and ideas of the one they are negotiating with. So for the most part, negotiation is not an option for men. They always want to stand their ground than looking for a middle ground. So, you have seen that men and women actually communicate differently. Acknowledging this fact and learning to understand this part of your relationship plays a big role in our relationships and love lives. What women perceive as connecting may mean something else like an intrusion for most men. So a husband who wants to connect with their wife should consider learning something about how to talk about feelings with their wife.