The Power To Transport

The men who become pickup artists make attracting women their sport. You are safe from judgement and rejection in your ivory tower, behind your witty intellect. Your primary masculine archetypes are the Magician and the Warrior, which is a powerful combination, both in life and in seduction. The Magician makes the plans, and the Warrior put them into action. If you’re reading this, no matter what attractive personality type you think you are, it is your Magician and Warrior that got you here. There is a Pragmatist in you then, even if only to a small degree. One of the most obvious things that make you attractive to women is that you are focused on your goals. You are working hard towards achieving something other than trying to get laid. If it is their career, they get promoted faster than others do. Between the Magician’s intellect and the Warrior’s aggressive, forward moving determination, the Pragmatist will learn what he desires to learn, and master what he seeks to master. Women are attracted to men who demonstrate mastery over a skill as it expresses these two powerful masculine archetypes. When your natural mastery isn’t displayed easily, you can often decide to master skills specifically for the purpose of attracting women.

Hurts Just A Little

Some turn their attention to mastering their body and develop an impressive physique. All of the above are worthwhile pursuits in their own right, but just have the added benefit of demonstrating your Magician and Warrior to women. Although you have the inherent ingredients for a successful life, you may often fall into the trap judging all men by the yardstick of skill, performance and results. If you fail to capture the interest of a woman you like, you may resolve yourself to working even harder at your job or craft after concluding that you would have won her over if you had had more mastery. Perhaps you are the career man delaying the pursuit of women till that next promotion or the businessman striving for that next revenue milestone. Pragmatists typically tell themselves that women will like them once they have achieved that next level of mastery. The glaring error with this mentality is that there is always someone higher up the career ladder, someone who makes more money or is more skilled than you. You are perpetually chasing that next level, forever chasing the carrot at the end of the stick. Sleeping with women becomes their skill, and their yardstick is how objectively attractive the women are and how often you can seduce them into bed. The hotter the women are and the more you sleep with, the more mastery you have. Men striving to face their fear of approaching and dating beautiful women is truly a noble cause, but many men get lost on this path. When your only skill is your ability to seduce, although very intoxicating for some women, you are forever trapped in the dance of courtship, never moving past that into longer relationships and all the joys that they bring.

Kiss Your Past Good—Bye

Get good with women, then move on to other things. Out of all of the attractive personality types, the Pragmatist is often the one missing out. While the others are at least trying in their own ways to attract women, you aren’t at the party choosing, instead, to work. You are often a rather serious person, and when unable to demonstrate your skill mastery, you often find yourself at a loss in social situations, losing female attention to the engaging Tricksters and Peacemakers. Not because the men are altruistic saints, but because they believe that by doing this they increase their chances of sleeping with them. White knights see the Provocateurs of the world as the ultimate enemy, the men that women need protecting from. If white knights knew the truth, however, that Provocateurs, far from being bad, actually give women something they deeply crave, maybe they would rethink their position and call off their crusade. The Provocateur is my favourite attractive personality type to play in. If this is your natural attractive personality type, then you are in a very fortunate position. In a world of soft, needy white knights that repulse women, you are the perfect remedy, the ideal antidote. Being another entirely Closed attractive personality type, you have your weaknesses, which we will get to shortly, but out of all of the Open and Closed attractive personality types, you are the most powerful because of the huge contrast between yourself and your typical nice guy. A hardness that defends himself against challenge, and actively expresses that hardness by challenging her ideas and beliefs in return.

Back Into The Universe

You meet a man’s warrior when you shake his hand, when you look him in the eyes, when you say anything to him and he says anything in return. The Warrior is present in every interaction, gilding every word and every action. When the Warrior joins forces with a very social, witty, creative masculine archetype like the Trickster, women experience a man that not only has the power to transport her to other worlds with his wit and words, but to defend his world from the power of hers. When being challenged by a powerful woman, with the Trickster you can dance around every attack, countering with playful jibes, or you can simply stand firm in your Warrior, demonstrating your incorruptibility. When wishing to actively demonstrate this aspect of yourself you can tease, make fun, weave hilarious roleplays, or just simply challenge her intellectually, declare your disagreements boldly, and change her mind with your determined arguments. Women are enamoured by a man she can’t control, manipulate or dominate, so you stand out in a powerful way. From the outside, witnessed by a white knight, it looks like you are being an asshole. The woman feels what the white knight cannot, which is why he is left in utter confusion when she goes home with the man that was disrespecting her so much earlier in the night.